<span class="vcard">Dr. Ren Torres, PsyD</span>
Dr. Ren Torres, PsyD

Boundaries……

When I was growing up, I never learned what we now refer to as “appropriate” boundaries.  In my world, boundaries were hierarchical.  If you were older you had priority.  If you were male you had priority.  The more priority you had the more free reign you had; as in you …

Interpersonal Triangulation

Interpersonal Triangulation is helpful, only in that each person recognizes that what they see in another person, is their own chosen perception.  If they are unable to recognize this – they unintentionally cause harm; especially if it is in relationship with another person. In other words, if I tell you …

Trust and Meaning

Humans are meaning-making machines.  What I mean by that is that meaning comes from within.  It comes from inside of you.  Many of us may have spent a lot of our lives looking for meaning from outside of us.  We have this constant stream of thoughts that we are either …