Month: February 2020

Month: February 2020

Finding trust

  Ren( Researcher/Teacher )I’m a writer in the Pacific Northwest, taking a pause from clinical practice to explore the model that has shaped so much of my thinking. I write to understand how people become themselves, how identity shifts, and …

Boundaries……

When I was growing up, I never learned what we now refer to as “appropriate” boundaries.  In my world, boundaries were hierarchical.  If you were older you had priority.  If you were male you had priority.  The more priority you …