Year: 2020

What is it?

Darkness is
the echo of the past
and the reflection of the future…..

-Ren

Finding trust

  Ren( Researcher/Teacher ) I’m a writer in the Pacific Northwest, taking a pause from clinical practice to explore the model that has shaped so much of my thinking. I write to understand how people become themselves, how identity shifts, …

Boundaries……

When I was growing up, I never learned what we now refer to as “appropriate” boundaries.  In my world, boundaries were hierarchical.  If you were older you had priority.  If you were male you had priority.  The more priority you …

Interpersonal Triangulation

Interpersonal Triangulation is helpful, only in that each person recognizes that what they see in another person, is their own chosen perception.  If they are unable to recognize this – they unintentionally cause harm; especially if it is in relationship …