Darkness is
the echo of the past
and the reflection of the future…..
-Ren
Year: 2020
Putting the Pieces Together…..
For the Villain to find healing, is through the process of becoming a Creator. For the Victim to find healing, is through the process of becoming a Challenger. For the Bystander to find healing, is through the process of becoming a Mentor. For the Hero to find healing, is through …
Self-respect: The Dynamics Between the Villain and the Victim
If you express extreme self-respect, you may be perceived as selfish, self-invested, or narcissistic – maybe even a villain. Your reality may be that internally, you are thinking the most self-disrespectful things imaginable; and so externally you must inflate examples of strength to counter the internal, negative, self-thinking. If a …
People are inherently kind….
Across the globe, in fear, one of our instincts is to stay connected, hold on to hope, and grieve together, each in our own ways. For some that looks like lightheartedness and remembering the joy that will inevitably return. For other’s, it looks like sitting in the sorrow, grief, and …
Boundaries……
When I was growing up, I never learned what we now refer to as “appropriate” boundaries. In my world, boundaries were hierarchical. If you were older you had priority. If you were male you had priority. The more priority you had the more free reign you had; as in you …
Interpersonal Triangulation
Interpersonal Triangulation is helpful, only in that each person recognizes that what they see in another person, is their own chosen perception. If they are unable to recognize this – they unintentionally cause harm; especially if it is in relationship with another person. In other words, if I tell you …