Heroism
Understand Heroism as a survival strategy and discover how stepping back into the Observer transforms the relational field.
Building Blocks
Villainhood
Explore why the Villain role emerges, how intensity shapes relationships, and the healing arc from domination to Creatorhood. A clear, compassionate guide to power, agency, and relational transformation.
Victimhood
Victimhood isn’t a personality flaw—it’s a nervous system strategy that quietly reshapes the entire relational field. When someone feels powerless, others get pulled into roles around them, confirming the very story they’re trying to escape. This piece explores how that happens and how we reclaim agency without becoming the “bad guy.”
When Mentor Meets Victim
In this article I look at all the healthy and unhealthy dynamics between a mentor and a victim – particularly what kinds of dynamics occur when either move through scarcity or abundance. 🌿The Healthy / Abundance Dynamics 1. Regulation Meets …
Boundaries……
When I was growing up, I never learned what we now refer to as “appropriate” boundaries. In my world, boundaries were hierarchical. If you were older you had priority. If you were male you had priority. The more priority you …
Interpersonal Triangulation
Interpersonal Triangulation is helpful, only in that each person recognizes that what they see in another person, is their own chosen perception. If they are unable to recognize this – they unintentionally cause harm; especially if it is in relationship …
Trust and Meaning
Humans are meaning-making machines. What I mean by that is that meaning comes from within. It comes from inside of you. Many of us may have spent a lot of our lives looking for meaning from outside of us. We …